Congrations !

Dear Rumy,

This post is specially for you ....... . because you just had a special one walk into your life to make you life more special.. so your friends are here wishing you to make it most special!!

Its been long since I have been on this space.. today I have a reason to be here.. to wish RUMY and DHRUV a great life ahead!
Well I will list my wishes for them and I think we five have the same wishes for you..!! ;)
If you guys have some extra wishes please do add them!!
Rumy we wish you eternal happiness and joy in your married life.Well for Dhruv we wish he gets his bed tea !! lolz (though I have a big doubt about who is gonna get it for whom)
Anyways Rumy ..enough of jokes from us we know but we cant help it!
We love you dear and one thing I can guarantee that all of us wants us to see you happy with you life partner ..whatever may it be .. hardships or happiness life puts you into!
More when we meet in person.. which I sont know when life will allow!
So here is one group hug for you!
God bless you both !! :)

Happy friendship day

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Happy friendship day to all my dear friends!
I wish the chemical bonds never die giving rise to spontaneous chained reactions!
You all make my life sound LIFE!
Bless ya all ...
take care and have loads of fun!
You'll remain in my heart forever!

I don't kno how long this loneliness is going to last. I don't kno when will I get the chance to go back to a place called "home". I think I'll have to soon come to a conclusion that this is wat life is. All the carefree, fun, happy days come to an end. Then u r left alone in a world wid loads of responsibilities and expectations. The only purpose of life remains in living for others and fulfilling others dream. Even a point is reached when one is not sure whether at all one's living according to one's will. I just wonder can't I go back 6 yrs from now and start all over again. But soon, I get my answer ! NO NO NO. I got to stay in this God-forsaken land for atleast next 7 yrs away 4m my friends and families. I don't have any1 left anymore beside me to whom I can go and throw my frustation on. I don't have any1 left beside me who's going 2 tell me ...... come on yaar....why do u at all care about all these petty things anymore......stop thinking ...... move on !!!! I don't even have the freedom to take my cycle (when i am really angry or sad abt something) and reach out 2 one of my frnds.....wake them up 4m their sleep and start bothering them wid my problems........guys i miss u so much !!!!!!

Phase lag!

Hi Sriju Mohona Sarsu Tannie n Rumy,
Almost 6 months after the last reunion... you remeber the day na when we all six were together for the last time... 8th july i think! after that one or the other had been missing in our meetings!
here in my office everrything seems to be fine and time ticks away so well but still at times i miss you all. Finding anyone of you on gtalk make my day twice effective.. it puts in some positive vibes in me after talking to you'll!!
I dont think Rumy ever has the time to go through this blog..hope others have some time!!
You know what i have been hooping for a lappy since long!! Gosh... Mohona should have already got one na??
Sriju is the one i have maximum talks with..it feels so good when she gives motherly advices... it feels as if i am just talking to her from campus only..just 15mins away from my home she is sitting giving replies to me...thank you soo much!!
Dont have news from sarasi since long... how r u champion gal!!?? hope to see you soon with that 32 out smile!!!
and lastly Tannie... how r u sweety!! heard you are going to Hyderabad...

Miss you all yaar... at this moment just missing too much! Really...
Feels like going for a hangout with you @ GOL C ....

Life seems so bogus at times and now even TV screens at times turn boring! Try to read story books to pass time and the story books seems like reminding me all stories of our own past days!
but @sum point i am also happy see-ing myself in the present mirror...doing my own works and shopping's and all other duties brings in some sense of accomplishment and a feel of inner fulfillment ....


Hope to meet you all soon...take care..love you all

Hello everyone !!

I am getting emails from everyone of you asking me how am I liking it here. First and foremost, I am terribly, miserably, horribly missing you guys. I just wish you all were here. We could have done so many adventures together. And whenever I land up in a disastrous situation, I wish I had a phone so that I could have called u up and share those experiences. You may be wondering, what sought of situations I am talking about. Let me elaborate in this blog.
Most commonly, I am always getting lost. I am staying in a place which is far away from my univ campus. We need to board a bus to get to the univ and the bus stop is some 5 mins walking distance from my home (yippee....i have got a home now :P....though in rent). One day, while coming back from the bus stop, I was unable to find my home. I roamed around the same places for almost 5 mins and then I could locate my home. Since I dont have a cell yet, I feel scared to think what would've happened if I didnt find my home that day. Maybe had to stay in the road. But that is illegal in US I suppose.
Next, I had a horrible time disposing my garbage. From the window of my room, I could see the garbage disposal bins right away. So, on my way to the university, I packed the garbage plastics and took it to the bin. There I saw signs like "STOP. No plastic or garbage bags." "Only recycles". (Here, they recycle papers and cans). Hence, I had to find the garbage bin which can hold all type of items in my whole community. I couldn't find it. Seeing no other options, I took those plastic bags in the recycle bins. Still now, I am feeling worried what will happen if they found I had broke a rule !!!!!!!
Now the most interesting of all. As you all know, I am a bit experienced in cooking. So I decided to cook something for my dinner one day. Then I found there was no knife in the house. I cut onions and tomatoes with a butter knife. And the most amazing thing, I had to cut cabbage with scissors :P It was good. easier and more precise I suppose. I decided on some omlette with all these veggies. I took two eggs. i found the amount of veggies where in excess. I took one more egg. Then heated oil in the pan. poured the beaten eggs with the veggies on it. To make things more complicated, the frying pan was too small. I had to scramble all the mixture. It tasted good.After that, I planned to do some washing/laundry then. I put the clothes in the washer, pour the detergent. I started the washer with some program as the "heavy wash" . After 20 mins, i thought since I have jeans, let me do "super heavy wash". SO the washer, without canceling it's previous assignment, completed the cycle of heavy wash (which is something about 45 mins) and then it started the super heavy wash also. which took another 45 mins. IT TOOK ME 1.5 hrs to wash some 10 clothes !!!!!!!!!!!!! I wondered what you guys would have said me in this situation. We might have had rounds of laughter riots !!!! something similar happened with the drying part too. it took me another 1.5 hrs. so I spend 3 hrs in laundry.
So you see, I am having my piece of time here. Making some disasters. And at the end, loving it. The fact that I am responsible for all the big and the small things makes the whole situation so adventurous.
P.S By the way, today I had a social gathering with all my 1st year grad students in a park. It was supposed to be a picninc. But unfortunately, after driving for some 45 mins (driving was done by debjit, my senior in this dept), we again got lost and couldn't find the place. hehehe...I dont know how long this will go on. But try to save some money and come here. Maybe next year. We'll definitely have some nice time together.
DO POST about your experiences. AND PLEASE COMMENT !!!!!!

Special One's

All through the years at IIT I earned a bunch of friends who are very close to my heart
It was with my special besties that i cherished SF of every year whether it was in the rains or in the severe cold- ...they are just amazing and each of them are unique in their special ways!!Whether dancing to songs of Shaan or waving to strings,Shankar Mahadevan or laughing high on rock music band.... these five were with me!

Commenting at Mohona's crush or Rumy's handu's were always too much of fun!! Tanny's exotic dance steps were always a source of entertainment!! The bindaas girl Sarsu was cool as always and Sriju the sweety of the group with her cute smile always!!

Really its impossible to think of living without this insti n my dearest besties...... my all time rocking buddies of IIT !!

So here are some thing for them...this post is dedicated to my best buddies at IIT


Rumy:
Well knew her since class IX. But came to know her better at IIT. Being always late in her works she earned many nicknames from us.. late kate !! You need to improve your timings dear... and i mean it ! Warna bahar jake kya karoge :P !!
I love teasing her just because i love her responses to my all sorts of trials of irritating her and she never getting really angry on me !! I will miss it really :(
She has been always somewhat dormant in our group..we always forcing her and giving her endless advices ! But the least she cares to modify herself ! :P
Initially she was so innocent but these days she speaks utter non-sense sometimes which leaves our mouth open in surprise :O :D
She has been a amazing friend inspite of all these ! The ms gorgeous of our group with her endless entertaining dialogues that we just love!



Sarsu:
Well she is one of the besties i got in the insti. The cool girl and the swimming champ :P . What i like in her is her bindass attitude. Actually i find a quite lot of similarities in us and may be thats what attaches me more to her. Wont forget that crossing wall for attending starnite ... only you n me are expert in it !! hahahaha
It was my best SF adventure till date... :D
Her sense of humour is superb :D :P and yeah creativity too ...miss hawaii lady!
Will miss you definitely!


Tanni:
The sweet kiddish girl . Well had known her since class VII and as such she has been a good friend of mine. Missed out the XI and XII with her. But soon she was back with her charm at IIT. I can tell a secret about her- she is spring footed :D !! Yeah all the time you will find her jumping ! A very jolly girl mature and kiddish...... n really so well balanced !
Already missing her as she has already left kgp ... but hope to meet you soon... and dont worry if not that..... talking will be always there :) !!
Will miss the night out parties at your home ... and also the hippy of our group !
You rock girl ! Take care


Sriju:
Well knew her since high school days and were friends but still the bond strengthened at IIT. I have always seen her with a smile on her face . A calm girl with a friendly attitude all the time ! She has been the sweet heart of the group.Since she had been the most nearby neighbour of mine she was tortured with most frequent visits of mine :D ...
I think i had spent maximum time in my first year in her house either solving physics problems or something else.
Apart from these the ludo sessions were also great...
Most of the times she is a great listener[even if i talked rubbish :P]and a great understanding girl !
Love u!


Mohona:
Finally comes my extrovert depmate Mohona. Well most of the times you will find her speaking her thought frankly and often landing up with problems.
I really had a doubt on her choice when she showed us her first crush :D ... and we laugh at it still now ! She has always been a vibrant personality greatly interested in debating her thoughts !
We have shared quite a lot of time in the same department and also shared all our frustrations together !
Well sometimes you can call her treat girl :P coz she was always the first one to ask for a treat!!And also to give one :D
How can i forget all those treats that i shared with her at the Nescafes which were definitely demanded by her from someone else! :D
A great friend - the source of sharing full time gossips and all time frustrations !! :D
I cant imagine you will be gone in a few days and you wont be in my reach ! :(


Thanks friends for always finding you all on my sides- You all rock ! Wish you all the best in your lives. Though i agree ki we will part at a point in spite of all trials to bond together -please don't loose contacts ! I cant think of living without you all - " Agar choda contact to maara jaoge[:P]"
I know most of the time its not easy to turn back when you need to move on - But still then there's a hope somewhere that may be we will re unite again sharing all our special moments together and adding one more to it !!

With whom will i share my frustrations and who are gonna accompany me in the debates and discussions! May be few new will come up in your places but definitely they wont fit well into it- coz you five are very special for me ! Love you all ! Be as you are always - please don't change !!

Take care

With love
=Debarati=

With love....

To Tanni......

Right now the only thing that is coming to my mind is: missing you immensely. Although we never met everyday while u wr in kgp......still realizing the fact that u've left kgp for gud ......makes me feel so sad !!!! i'm going 2 miss all those "gym" trips......then always hearing: "chol na mohona kichu kori....ektu masti kori" with a twinkle in ur eyes !!! n most importantly ...... all those whole-nite parties, kol trips will b incomplete widout u !!!!! at 1st, u appeared 2 b a shy, timid n a childish gal.....mayb some1 who wud've cried if we taunted her far too much.......but now i kno behind tat cute n innocent face, thr lies a woman who is as independent as me and a much more mature, intelligent and a stylish person.......i just hope n wish tat next yr u come n join me thr.....n the icing in the cake will b if u get thr VT...

To Rumy.......
First n foremost...A very happy b'day.....n since it is ur bday i won't start scolding u over out hr !!! u being the dormant member of this circle......it seems unlikely tat the gr will miss u very much.....but yes i got 2 acknowledge the fact tat i'll miss u a lot at times.......especially whn i have a bad fite wid nirni.........(i wont have the chance 2 come storming 2 ur house n complaint abt him anymore)..........but i'll miss u mostly bcoz i wont get the chance 2 shout n bully any1 !!!!

To Sriju.........
U r the only one whom i hadn't known b4........but 1st time whn i saw u.....i realized tat we'r going 2 gel 2gether very well....now thr we r......one of the best frnds possible.......still most of the times it is us who does all the talking n u just listen n smile............i sumtimes wonder how d u react whn u get angry ??!!!!!!!!!! the thing i'll mostly miss abt u is all those updates regarding dif tv shows......n also those delicious khichuri n saraswati puja tr8s u used 2 invite for !!!!!!!!!!!

To Debu........
We shared another "chemistry" altogether !!!!! being a depmate.......we met almost everyday. the day whn u'll leave kgp will b one of the "tearsome" days 4 me !!! :P 4 the last 5 yrs i alwayz found u beside me.......subtly telling me 2 chill out by saying : "oto load nish na.....kicchu hobe na". At 1st, she was the most innocent n the most quite person among all of us........then she changed....always coming up with some ideas of mischiefs in her head...........i remember how she used 2 feel reluctant 2 gossip abt "guys".....but 4 the last yr or two.....rest of us used 2 b surprised when she too cracked jokes abt them n njoyed all those gossips abt dif couples !!!!!

To Sars......
Now come the gal who according 2 guys' lingo is my "languthia yaar".......the person wid whom i've shared the darkest secrets of my life in different phases of my life......the person who has been almost a guardian 2 all of us.......the person who used 2 make facial scowls whn we brooded over sumthing.......the person who hated 2 b late but at times turn out 2 b the 2nd "late kate" of our group !!!!! I have no idea how will it feel 2 miss u...........coz thr hasn't been anytime in my life tat i had spend widout u.....all those childhood adventures......then the adolescent age whn we shared our "ajob" experiences !!!!

To All Together.......
How much plans we make, how much dreams we see of being together again will all b in vain......but the fact can't be denied anymore.....we are all falling apart 4m the group. So i've a request....plz get married in either kgp or kol (chandernogore will also do :P) so tat atleast 6 more times we come together and share all those giggles, riots of laughter and pillow fightings again !!!!!! And do write some posts abt urselves and taking all of us 2gether in the blog.....so as to get the remnants of the very strong bond we shared 4 last 5 yrs !!
At last, thanx 4 being such a wonderful friends and teaching me different aspects of life !!!